What to wear on Date Night – when you haven’t had a date in a while

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One thing that everyone drums into you when you have had a baby is not to neglect your relationship and schedule in regular mummy and daddy time. Admittedly, in the first few months after birth it’s hard to muster up the energy to head out in the evening – let alone be romantic.

But, I hear it’s important to have regular Date Nights.

Date Night

• informal

A prearranged occasion on which an established couple, especially one with children, go for a night out together:

1. ‘they make sure they have a date night every week’

2. ‘she’s planning date night with her husband’

(from the Oxford dictionary)

I say hear because Mr VIB and I haven’t had a date since Miss Marnie arrived!

What do you mean you haven’t been on a date in over a year?”

Yes, it’s true. There was a part of me that didn’t want to fess up to this. But, we haven’t had a night out on our own in over 18 months. Lack of babysitters, family to lean on nearby and mainly due to a co-sleeping/extended breastfeeding schedule (due to a formula intolerance) we couldn’t really make it happen.

And, do you know what? If I am truly honest I’m just fine with that.

It really hasn’t bothered me (or Mr VIB). But, it seems to bother other people as they can’t seem to understand why we haven’t been out ALONE! The truth is I have been with Mr VIB for over 18 years and we’ve had plenty of date nights thank you very much! We’ve had lots of holidays, weekend getaways in boutique hotels, last-minute dates out on the town and all that jazz.

And, now our time together is about Miss Marnie and doing things as a family.

Maybe I am wrong? Maybe I should just bite to bullet find a babysitter, pull on my heels and get out there. But, one thing that runs through my mind (apart from what on earth are we going to talk about/will I fall asleep during dessert?/am I still interesting enough to date?) is what the hell am I going to WEAR!

On that note here’s some Date Night style ideas for when you haven’t had a date in a while/need to update your mummy look/just want to wear something new. Who knows maybe I will get to follow my own style advice soon…

 

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Sheer Lips in Nuclear £8 Topshop | Formal Stepped Hem Tunic £38 Topshop | Mutli-color Woven Fabric Jacket £89.99 Zara | Flower Fan Necklace £49.50 JCrew | Black 2 Part Pointed Ankle Strap Ballet Pumps £25 River Island at ASOS |1969 Cuffed Always Skinny Jeans £22.99 Gap

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Leighton Denny Nail Polish in Being Brigitte £11 Marks & Spencer (exclusive colour to M&S) | Sleeveless patterned blouse £7.99 H&M | Red over sized gem stone flower stud earrings £10 River Island | Mia Loop handle clutch £165 Whistles | Crinkled Midi Skirt £24.99 H&M | Peep toe shoe boot £79.99 Mango at ASOS

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 Baby Doll Kiss & Blush Lip and Cheek Duo in Fuchsia Desinvolte £27 Yves Saint Laurent | Sleeveless jumpsuit £34.99 H&M| Perforated messenger bag £29.99 Zara | Dark metal cuff £12.50 Miss Selfridge| VIKTOR and ROLF Flowerbomb La Vie En Rose Sparkling Summer EDT £54.50 Boots | Rio Leopard sandals by CJG £115 Topshop

What do you think of Date Night? Is is important to you or not?

2 Comments

  1. April 26, 2014 / 9:13 pm

    I must admit I do like a night out with my husband or my close girlfriends I love a little reason to dress up a little smarter and pop into town to remember how much I love London, then when I get home how much I love being with my two little ones…win, win!! Sometimes though a night in front of the tv with a good film and bottle of wine is just as good! Love the outfits you have chosen there are perfect date night looks xx

    • April 30, 2014 / 8:10 pm

      A night in with TV/wine is our mainstay at the mo – but, have been out with friends into town and yes its great to get dressed up!
      So, glad you like the outfits – as I know what a stylish lady you are on Twitter!
      x

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